09-15-21, 04:24 PM | |
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Maryland, USA
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I am a huge dog person - but dogs are not for everyone and I think you should decline your sister's offer - she should understand and want the best for both of you. I wouldn't ask someone who was not comfortable with dogs and/or the mess they inadvertently create to take care of my dogs.
And dogs, they do create a mess - they track dirt into the house, they get wet, the roll in stuff, etc. It does not sound like you will be able to maintain the level of cleanliness you desire in your home with a dog. Are you ok with that on a temporary basis? If not, I would tell her you can't dog sit, or, as others have said, maybe you can sit for the dog at your sister's house. Donna |
09-15-21, 04:46 PM | |
Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Arizona
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I understand how you feel, as your sister has been there for you and you want to do the same. I also have some OCD, although mine is different and I have pets. But I understand how difficult that is to deal with. People don’t tend to look at a mental illness the same way as they would a physical disability, and you’re afraid she will think you are being selfish.
However, you have to think about the puppy, who deserves the right care. Even if your sister is angry with you, you have to do the right thing for the puppy, who is the innocent one here. I feel bad for you, your sister has put you in a bad position. I hope you are able to sort it out
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