06-30-14, 02:20 PM | ||
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Germany
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06-30-14, 02:25 PM | ||
Join Date: Jun 2004
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So he wants to compete? I say go for it and sweep the floor with him!
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06-30-14, 03:41 PM | |
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Orlando, FL
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i weigh more than my dh, too! he has gained about 15 lbs since we got married... he weighed 116 then! now he's like 131, and im still 6-8 lbs more than him, and we are the same height. he can do things i cant, but i can do things he cant (he is a wimp when it comes to the burn ... barre, etc.) sometimes i feel a little jealous.
His sister is also extremely into crossfit and was a gymnast/cheerleader growing up and is super strong compared to me, even though im a personal trainer... lol. My father in law, too, always asks me how many pullups i can do followed by "come on, youre a personal trainer!!" so its been a tough journey to get comfortable with myself and where i am. DH is very mindful of what he says and does... his family not so much. ive come to know that what makes a great trainer isnt what youre able to do, but how youre able to teach and motivate others... and im great at that!! so focusing on what youre great at is definitely a key to blurring out what youre not good at (yet) :-)
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Caitlin in Orlando!! Barre, Indoor Walking, and Rebounding Lover Favorites: Suzanne Bowen, Jessica Smith, Ellen Barrett |
06-30-14, 08:12 PM | |
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Kuala Lumpur
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To the OP - I truly think everything is as it should be.
Your husband is built like a man- broad at the shoulders and tapering down to the hips. You are built like a woman - hour glass with wider hips than him. Size 6 is a great size to be. Healthy and definitely not over weight. The only difference between the two of you seems to be self image. Except air brushed models, bodies are rarely meet an ideal concept (whether that ideal is athlete, dancer or swimsuit model). Your husband looks in the mirror and sees what is right about himself and revels in his ability to do push-ups and chin-ups. Through your loving eyes you see him as ideal. Through his loving eyes, you are ideal too. Like many women tend to, you are being critical of the image in the mirror. |
06-30-14, 09:24 PM | |
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Orlando, FL
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i like this. finding my love for barre has helped me feel more independent of DH... he does workouts with me sometimes and its fun to see him whine but also frustrating when he quits because he doesn't like it, haha (it burns!!)
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Caitlin in Orlando!! Barre, Indoor Walking, and Rebounding Lover Favorites: Suzanne Bowen, Jessica Smith, Ellen Barrett |
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body acceptance, perimenopause, self-esteem |
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