05-30-23, 05:46 AM | |
Join Date: Sep 2002
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I hope you will go to the little 2 hour reunion. Call anagency and get someone to sit with her for 2 hours. money well spent.
where I live we have a couple business that do elder care, errands, cleaning etc. I think that is becoming more popular/available. also look into adult daycare? maybe medicare can provide home health respite/ongoing care. I hope you take good care of yourself and your day. I have had this problem in my own family. Never count on on her children and grandchildren. just ignore them and don't let it eat you up. not worth it. (just my experience, I was better off not contacting my family member's relative and just always knew no help was coming from them) good luck and paying for 2 hours for help- freedom |
05-30-23, 09:10 AM | |
Join Date: May 2004
Location: Modify City, State of Fierce
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I'm sorry, Gams...very frustrating! The stepmom is a piece of work.
I really think money well spent to have a caregiver come for 2 hours, even if you are there. I think with your recent surgeries you should be careful. Honestly, based on the care she seems to demand maybe she should already be in a facility? (Don't you wish you could be catty though and put together an invoice for all y'all do for her and mail it to all her children? ) Hang in there !
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05-30-23, 09:22 AM | |
Join Date: Mar 2007
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Dad won’t let us hire somebody to come in and she definitely won’t. She was really mean to the physical therapist who came in a couple times and got rid of her and also another woman who came in a couple times. (These were visits set up by the hospital after one of her falls.). Several of us have suggested she needs to be in a nursing home but Dad has resisted and she would have a flipping fit. One of her daughters made a comment that they should go into a nursing home together, which makes no sense because Dad doesn’t need one and she would only continue to make him wait on her hand and foot. Dad’s neighbors have told us they feel sorry for Dad because they hear my stepmom screaming “Dick!!!” all day long.
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