11-27-21, 05:54 PM | |
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: UNITED STATES
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Thank you so much. They are needed. Mom doesn't want to ask me for help. She is so grumpy or proud about asking for it. I try to do things for her without her asking. Yet it is hard to guess what she needs. She still wants to be totally independent of assistance. It is a challenging time. The chaplin came by the other day. She accused me of sending him to the house. She was the one that signed up for hospice which started the whole process of the staff coming out. He had paperwork for Mom to sign. I am totally lost as to her moods and distance in communicating needs. She is able to, but doesn't ask, won't ask. I can't figure her out emotionally. This isn't new. She has been like this all her life. She never told me Dad had dementia until she was hospitalized and I had to come care for him. I wasn't in the position to come to FL. from Ca. financially to visit often. She hid what was happening in her life. By the time I came out he didn't recognize me.
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