09-29-14, 07:52 AM | ||
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Michigan
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Mandy,
Like Diana I wasn't going to read either; I lost my fiancé 1 1/2 years ago. He chose Hospice at the end which saved me from deciding. He was gone in 6 days at age 37. I remember the roller coaster of emotions and my heart goes out to you and hope you find peace knowing you can make the best decision you can - that's all. Quote:
Mandy - I don't mean to rattle on about my situation; I really wish you the best and know others are here to help if you need it. God Bless. |
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09-29-14, 12:48 PM | ||
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: I love that dirty water...
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09-29-14, 01:39 PM | |
Join Date: Jan 2013
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We had heard this many times, too (my mom has a good friend who works in a nursing home). We lost a family member last November, suddenly after surgery (blood clot), and our family had the same experience. We didn't know what the ultimate outcome would be, but we made sure to spend time with her... and to give her some time alone, as well, so she wasn't struggling to hang on, just for us. Her family was present when she finally succumbed, but she had begun the process of passing on while we were out of the room (doctors fetched us back to say goodbye). It's hard to leave someone you love suffering and alone--but I've come to believe that death can be a very private and deeply personal experience, and some souls need to spend their last earthly moments alone, to move on in privacy. (((hugs)))
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09-29-14, 06:57 PM | ||
Join Date: Oct 2009
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I share the following technique because it helped me then & now. It's free & immediately accessible. Whenever I am not actively engaged in doing something - I say in my mind over & over again - ________ is with me. Substitute whatever belief or philosophy brings you the most comfort. It calms me, helps me not worry & somehow draws that guiding force to me & the situation. I'm praying for you & your family, take care. |
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