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Originally Posted by lreidgreen
Hmm...I think I will have to update my letter of instruction. I have a list of who gets what in the safe deposit box-jewelry, coins, etc. I should also think of who gets my exercise DVDs.
Jackie and others who mentioned de-cluttering: There is a Decluttering Support and Motivation Check in if you are interested.
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i have to go check-in over there w/y'all....
thinking about where your possessions will be gifted to, and i mean all possessions, really helps put things in perspective.
when DS18 was born, DH and i finalized our will and revocable living trust. we also added the task of my parents' legal documents. i seem to recall that for items not specifically bequeathed, there's a catch-all bucket for everything else. going thru this the first time was very cathartic. i also didn't want my parents' estate to be a mess, therefore it was a relief when it was all done.
every so often, i mentally think about the many things i own, and what will happen to it, and instead of feeling morbid, it becomes more of a reminder of what's important in life.
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Miyagi: Wax on, right hand. Wax off, left hand. Wax on, wax off. Breathe in through nose, out the mouth. Wax on, wax off. Don't forget to breathe, very important.
[walks away, still making circular motions with hands] ~ Pat Morita, The Karate Kid, 1984
disclosure: in the years 2002-2004 i had a professional relationship with a distributor of fitness videos; see profile.
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