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10-08-20, 08:19 AM | |
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Buff, if you don't mind sharing, what four daily prompts do you use? I've been trying to figure out the differences and relationships of intentions, affirmations, goals and habits.
I've had a daily intention this week (same each day) but so far it hasn't made much difference. I'm really struggling with motivation and self-discipline and it seems worse than usual. I'm also feeling more emotional since my dad went back home so I don't know if the grief finally bubbling up is making things harder. I am working on habit stacking to automate as much of my day as I can. When I look at the next task and say I don't wanna, I'm trying to tell myself that's nice, just do it anyway and then it's done. Sometimes it works.
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10-08-20, 07:00 PM | |
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Australia
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BUFF
Can I second Vannie's question on the prompts? I kept a diary for several decades but it became a place to vent, so was full of negative stuff when going back over it, so stopped years ago. Yes, meditation is VERY good for our overall well-being - amazingly so, & the more I've learned about HOW good for us it is, the more I persevere with it. Hmmm... might sit & try NOW. Thursday: Quite a warm day so buddy ditched on a workout via FaceTime - her house was too hot, but invited us (Alice & me) to go for a >> hill/beach walk << around dusk. Ended being ~90 floors. We did two laps of the stairs down/up, which took about an hour. It's only 5min drive from home & the beach is typically deserted.
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10-08-20, 08:04 PM | |
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: New York
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The prompts come from a five minute journal by Intelligent Change. They are:
AM: I am grateful for: 3 things What would/will make today great? 3 things Daily Affirmation I am: PM: 3 amazing things that happened today: How could I have made today better? I skip the last question since it just feels like pressure to me. My answer was always about doing more when in reality I should be finding ways to do less. I do this in a notebook (I didn't buy their journal) and usually it's really small stuff that I'm writing about and the same stuff comes up again and again - the same way I want the same presents every holiday season because those are the ones that make me happy! My affirmations lately have come from my workouts and whatever affirmations they're promoting that day. They're all good but I'm not always good at coming up with them.
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10-08-20, 08:50 PM | |
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Thank you for sharing, buff! My gratitude lists are usually pretty similar too. I try to think harder and look for more things during the day.
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"No matter how slow you go, you are still lapping everybody on the couch." "God, please help me to be the person my dog thinks I am." "You can't run from your problems. But you'll both feel a little lighter when you get back." ~New Balance shoe ad You don't have to be fast, just keep moving forward. Note to self: You don't get to complain about things you won't work to change! Word for 2024: Accomplished; Word for 2023: Grounded; Word for 2022: Consistency; Word for 2021: Mindfulness |
10-08-20, 09:42 PM | |
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Australia
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Thankyou Buff!!
Starting back at work on Monday - sounds like this weekend is timely to start. Going back to work is always a downer. I'm sure to have a nice little notebook for this somewhere, but an excuse to purchase pretty stationery could be the FIRST thing to be grateful for! ETA Just read a work email - a teacher died yesterday. He was the smartest person in the whole school, only about 55, rode his bike to work every day, lean but not gaunt, and SUCH a kind and calm manner, softly spoken. He died of a heart attack whilst surfing. DEFINITELY heading out for that journal!! I'm feeling a bit weird. ETA Done. Whilst out, booked a hair appointment (only get a straight trim a few times a year) and have to wait an hour so filled in the journal for the morning. Added “and why” to what would make today great Added to P.M. “Plan for tomorrow: 3 things” Have a wonderful day ETA whilst cleaning windows, stepped down with my 'bad' leg and OUCH!!! Settled after 5min, but cut my plans for a while. Eventually took Alice for a 90min walk downtown - restrictions must have been lifted as all the restaurants & bars were FULL. Warm evening, no chance of rain - everyone was out enjoying it.
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2024: 👏 STRIVE rather than settle.👏 💪STRONG rather than soft.💪 • No exercise can compensate for a poor diet. 😖 • Walking is phenomenally good for me. 😊 • Resistance training is critical. 💯 ¹ Walk first ² Weights next ³ Cardio for fun ⁴ Add stretch & balance. |
10-10-20, 11:27 AM | ||
Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: WI
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Quote:
I found the leg challenge effective, so I figured why not the ab?
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10-11-20, 12:34 AM | |
Join Date: Mar 2014
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Helen, I'm so sorry about your coworker. So young! We really never do know what tmrw will bring or if we will even get a tmrw. Sending you hugs.
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"No matter how slow you go, you are still lapping everybody on the couch." "God, please help me to be the person my dog thinks I am." "You can't run from your problems. But you'll both feel a little lighter when you get back." ~New Balance shoe ad You don't have to be fast, just keep moving forward. Note to self: You don't get to complain about things you won't work to change! Word for 2024: Accomplished; Word for 2023: Grounded; Word for 2022: Consistency; Word for 2021: Mindfulness |
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