08-19-02, 08:26 AM | |
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Join Date: Dec 2001
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Congratulations
And I suggest in a couple of weeks you get his credit card out and get some new videos- your muscles need to stay confused, you know
And maybe the kickboxing isn't a bad idea- and sounds like his potbelly would be a great target Deb |
08-19-02, 10:15 AM | ||
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: San Jose, California
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Re: Re: My obnoxious dh!
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In addition, you have every right to decide whether your weight is a problem or not. There are some women who weigh 180 pounds who decide to lose weight, and fine for them. But there are others (generally not those in your situation, though, but that's another story) who decide that weight is physically right for them - and that's OK too. Ultimately, it's your decision. You shouldn't let anyone else push you into it or try to sway you out of fear. |
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08-19-02, 10:26 AM | |
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Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: Knoxville, TN
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And another thing...
It's His Baby Too!
In our house, we don't call it babysitting unless it is done by someone other than the parents. You deserve time off from parenting to take care of yourself. After all, it is his child too. Just my opinion. Cynthia (in TN) |
08-19-02, 10:51 AM | |
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Pennsylvania
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I agree with Cynthia
And also, while I don't know how you and your husband structure your finances, I'm concerned about the phrase "his money". As far as I'm concerned, there's paid work and unpaid work. They're both work, and it takes two to support a household. My salary helped put my husband through school, and helped pay off his sizable school loans. I'm an at-home mom now, and if I didn't take care of the household stuff, my husband would either have to pay someone to do it (or live in squalor! )
Becoming a parent is, for many if not all, much harder than we ever imagine. Regardless of the role each parent plays, it's a joint effort. I find that when I feel respected and appreciated, everything else falls into place. And that needs to go both ways. Taking care of yourself is taking care of your family. Rosalind |
08-19-02, 11:25 AM | ||
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Northern Alabama
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Re: And another thing...
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I am stronger than ever because of his lacking support of raising our two children. If I should ever be really on my own, I know I can make it. Cynthia, go hug your husband. Men aren't all that great. |
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