Off-Topic Walking partner invites us for wine

[Sara1000]

My DH walks with another guy who lives in our neighborhood but otherwise we have never socialized.

Now he called and invited us over for a glass of wine at 5:00 today. He said not to bring anything, but I feel a little something like a jar of flowers would be nice. We have never socialized with them other than the walking.

We don't socialize much so I'm out of touch with the etiquette of today - what do you think? Are flowers too much if it's just a casual glass of wine?

[bee]

Originally Posted by Sara1000

My DH walks with another guy who lives in our neighborhood but otherwise we have never socialized.

Now he called and invited us over for a glass of wine at 5:00 today. He said not to bring anything, but I feel a little something like a jar of flowers would be nice. We have never socialized with them other than the walking.

We don't socialize much so I'm out of touch with the etiquette of today - what do you think? Are flowers too much if it's just a casual glass of wine?

I think flowers are never a bad idea. Enjoy!!

[Sara1000]

Originally Posted by bee

I think flowers are never a bad idea. Enjoy!!

Thank, Bee.

I tend to over think things - so then if we invite them over sometime to reciprocate, will they not feel obligate to bring something? Maybe any gift is making it seem to formal? Do people so normally invite neighbors for a drink that it's not really considered a social occasion?

[Joni O]

Hmmm. I’m guessing that a glass of wine at 5:00 will be more than wine - they will likely serve “something” with the wine - like a happy hour would. Don’t you think? I wouldn’t bring a gift per se, but possibly something for all of you to have with the wine. A small plate of cheese, summer sausage and crackers? Is there a simple appetizer that you make? Slap some jelly on a round of Brie cheese?

[suegy3]

Originally Posted by Joni O

Hmmm. I’m guessing that a glass of wine at 5:00 will be more than wine - they will likely serve “something” with the wine - like a happy hour would. Don’t you think? I wouldn’t bring a gift per se, but possibly something for all of you to have with the wine. A small plate of cheese, summer sausage and crackers? Is there a simple appetizer that you make? Slap some jelly on a round of Brie cheese?

I agree. I’d bring cheese and crackers or a small veggie or fruit tray People usually say don’t bring anything but guests bring it anyway. Have fun

[cataddict]

Originally Posted by suegy3

I agree. I’d bring cheese and crackers or a small veggie or fruit tray People usually say don’t bring anything but guests bring it anyway. Have fun

I like these suggestions, although I believe flowers would be better. I'm leaning toward the flowers as I think about it since you've never socialized with them before and couldn't be sure of their eating preferences. If I put myself in their place, I'm a vegetarian and a tray with summer sausage would present an awkward moment despite the good intentions, especially since you don't know these people well.