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Old 07-20-16, 12:04 PM  
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Thank you, this site and my therapist have been such a comfort. I have had such wonderful VF friends tell me that I am not alone. Everyday I realize why this divorce is happening and how I can use the situation to better my life. As I said to my niece "I'm a free agent" and doing what makes me happy.
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Old 07-20-16, 01:02 PM  
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And from me too. Better days are coming, know it!
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Old 07-23-16, 02:28 PM  
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I thought of this thread when I saw this video of a man doing a workout for his 106th birthday

http://www.ksat.com/news/family-cite...106th-birthday
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Old 07-23-16, 02:43 PM  
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There have been so many books on successful aging; but I think you've captured it succinctly in 5 paragraphs !!
Thanks; how lovely of you to say that! I've been thinking a lot about this topic since turning 50 so I've had 10 years to gather my thoughts. One can't predict how one will age but I am doing the best I can to take good care of myself to make my golden years truly golden.
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Old 07-24-16, 08:39 AM  
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I thought of this thread when I saw this video of a man doing a workout for his 106th birthday

http://www.ksat.com/news/family-cite...106th-birthday
That was sweet. Thanks for posting it.
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Old 07-24-16, 04:51 PM  
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As other people have said, my response to aging is to embrace it as a natural phase of life rather than trying to look eternally young. I have self-confidence that was sorely lacking earlier in my life. I keep up with current events, the arts and culture, and volunteer my professional services at a non-profit library. I also am growing my circle of friends because community is extremely important as one ages.
Hints on growing the circle of friends? I've recently noticed that I recreated my childhood home within my family- this is a very, very, bad thing. But. of course, realizing the need for change is the first step. So...

While it is so super important to have a good attitude and to be forward looking, we also need to process things and acknowledge and understand the hardships of life. I've been watching someone's family that is so amazingly profound in their lack of emotional communication, it has made me understand that not working through things within our families and within ourselves leaves people isolated in the long run. No one wants to listen to someone whine constantly, but in the same vein, I wouldn't want someone to feel like I wouldn't support them through their pain or that I wouldn't understand if they just howled at the world every now and then for all its injustice. see now and then
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Old 07-24-16, 06:42 PM  
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I just turned 48.

I love all of these suggestions -- they are outstanding -- and I have only thing to add.

As I have grown older, I have really enjoyed getting in touch with my creative side, whether through writing, sewing, knitting, painting, metalsmithing -- whatever. I find that it really enriches my life, that it calms me, and that it all feeds off the other. This has been a delightful surprise.

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Old 07-24-16, 07:27 PM  
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I take time every single day to count the blessings that I do have and not worry about the things I cannot change and my problems. Not saying I never worry - I just take a conscientious break from it. I also try to walk in nature every day and observe the beauty that is to be found there. It makes me smile more than frown.
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