I had my Little Buzzer 20 days before my 41st birthday. It's been tougher to get my body back, but I also haven't been as focused on it as I thought I would be. My priorities have changed
My abs especially have been a problem. But, they were stretched to make room for the little critter, so I am trying to be easier on myself.
I was and still am concerned about being an older Mom, although I look about 10 years younger & feel at least that, I know that number is there. I even had a high school acquaintance I ran into assume LB was an accident since I had her so late in life! I just kinda stood there dumbfounded, and regret not reading her the riot act. She has 3 teenagers, so she's in a different mindset.
It's odd that some of my HS friends are grandparents even, but you know what? they had their kids way early. That was weird for me at the time, so I can understand why my choices may be weird to them now. I've always been a late bloomer, and this is just how my timeline has worked out.
I've met Moms that are in their 30's that look older than me, that have more health problems than me, that are less active than me, so I figure I'm doing good at my age and have motivation (LB) to keep myself healthy.
Besides, I really believe I am a better Mom, I'm more patient, more focused on enjoying LB, and more willing to set my selfish ways aside for her than I would have been in my 20's or 30's. I'm enjoying being a Mom so much, and like you, would have regretted not given myself the chance to experience this. It's tough, but mostly mentally tough.
Congratulations on your decision! I'd love to keep updated on how you're doing, and PM me if you just need an older friend to vent to.
Sometimes it's lonely being older, but only if I really think about it. sorry about your struggles,and I hope this is your light at the end of the tunnel!
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