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08-20-14, 04:57 PM | ||
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08-20-14, 04:59 PM | |
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I thought the article was great. Sometimes I get caught up in deciding what's the best workout to do that day instead of focusing on strength for functional living (I've even read it called "functional survival") is what it's all about.
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08-20-14, 05:01 PM | |
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Women need to be mentally strong as well as physically strong. Part of me is flabbergasted that someone would let a random comment upset them for days as the author of the article describes.
On the other hand, sometimes random crap does get under your skin. Some people may not like muscular women; others really admire them. It's all in whose opinion you pay attention to. The number of people whose opinion matters to you should be small and very wisely selected. Otherwise, let it go. |
08-20-14, 05:03 PM | |
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I for one wish we would just stop commenting on looks 24/7. Here and everywhere else, positive or negative. I don't think I've EVER seen a thread on a workout led by a woman, where her looks aren't commented on. Usually positively, but a judgment all the same. This does not include comments like, she looks like she's having fun, happy etc.
And sometimes when people are going on and on about how beautiful instructor x is- I'm like - she's attractive, but really? And then, I am part of the problem. |
08-20-14, 05:38 PM | ||
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08-20-14, 05:56 PM | ||
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Not all of us have been so lucky. In my experience, the people who make hurtful remarks have major boundary issues, issues with their own bodies, their own self-perception, etc., and the remarks they make seem to reflect their own issues far more than mine. Unfortunately, once the words leave their mouths, somehow 'their stuff' becomes part of 'our' conversation. Whether or not it happens in a positive/helpful way, or a negative/bitchy one, it becomes something I have to cope with. The fact that it tends to happen most often when I'm feeling vulnerable doesn't reflect well on their sense of appropriate timing, either. Last edited by BunnyHop; 08-20-14 at 05:56 PM. Reason: clarity |
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08-20-14, 07:40 PM | |
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Great article and I agree!
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