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Old 07-06-18, 04:31 PM  
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Seriously???Unbelievable
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Old 07-06-18, 04:36 PM  
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If someone is not comfortable with a post, then please just do not read it. I do not see why the title of the thread should be changed.
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Old 07-06-18, 05:09 PM  
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Lilypad, please know that you are among friends here. ((hugs))

If anyone find this thread problematic, please just avoid it.
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Old 07-06-18, 05:13 PM  
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That's what I was thinking. A lot of us have been through this kind of thing (myself included). Have a heart, if someone needs a little help, we should be there. If you don't care for the subject matter, don't read the post.
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Old 07-06-18, 05:28 PM  
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That's what I was thinking. A lot of us have been through this kind of thing (myself included). Have a heart, if someone needs a little help, we should be there. If you don't care for the subject matter, don't read the post.
Agreed.
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Old 07-06-18, 06:14 PM  
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We will all face all kinds of challenges as we go through life. Many of us have been on this board for many years and feel a bond with our fellow VFers.

IMO we should feel comfortable asking for help and support here.

If a topic is upsetting to others on the board surely they can find a way to avoid it, or depart from it quickly. Have a heart, folks.

Lilypad, you ARE among friends here. I am SO hoping this turns out well.
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Old 07-06-18, 06:21 PM  
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We will all face all kinds of challenges as we go through life. Many of us have been on this board for many years and feel a bond with our fellow VFers.

IMO we should feel comfortable asking for help and support here.

If a topic is upsetting to others on the board surely they can find a way to avoid it, or depart from it quickly. Have a heart, folks.

Lilypad, you ARE among friends here. I am SO hoping this turns out well.
So sorry Lilypad for what you are going through but happy to see such support here. Sending hugs and best wishes.
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Old 07-06-18, 07:25 PM  
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If someone is not comfortable with a post, then please just do not read it. I do not see why the title of the thread should be changed.
+1

I have read many posts of the years here that have been quite personal. ( marital, children, mental health issues) If you are not in a place to help then move on to another topic. No one is forcing anyone to read this thread. Lilypad my hear goes out to you. This is a safe place. You will get a lot of feedback from women who have been in your position and can offer a shoulder to cry on or solid advise. I thought this community was about wellbeing and fitness.....I feel that they both go hand and hand.
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Old 07-06-18, 07:52 PM  
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i have read many posts of the years here that have been quite personal. ( marital, children, mental health issues) if you are not in a place to help then move on to another topic. No one is forcing anyone to read this thread. Lilypad my hear goes out to you. This is a safe place. You will get a lot of feedback from women who have been in your position and can offer a shoulder to cry on or solid advise. I thought this community was about wellbeing and fitness.....i feel that they both go hand and hand.
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I prefer to be kind but I that doesn't mean catering to the unreasonable all the time, especially at the cost of people in true need.
Lilypad---I sincerely hope your family finds peace.
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Old 07-06-18, 08:10 PM  
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How is it considered an attack to ask for a descriptive thread title so that we would know what we are getting into for clicking on a thread? If I would have known I would have either avoided the thread or braced myself so as not to get drowned and washed out by someone's problems. The thread title says nothing about the content.

I don't know why asking for such a small thing is considered an attack. Orr why respecting this as a really simple easy to achieve boundry would be so offensive. But now i know what is in this thread and I know better than to expect to be respected by fellow VFers. None of you know what I am going through right now, and it doesnt seem like you care even enough to expect a thread title modified.

Thank you. Good bye.
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