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01-15-17, 08:44 AM | |
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Under normal circumstances I use the kindness approach. Dealing with a bully is different. You are probably going to get steamed rolled over by being nice to a bully.
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01-15-17, 01:43 PM | ||
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In a situation like this, where you are both members of a class, it is the duty of the instructor and the facility to maintain and enforce a code of conduct. That's why I think it is essential to speak to the person in charge and let them figure out how to deal with it. |
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01-15-17, 02:22 PM | ||
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01-15-17, 02:38 PM | |
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I recently had to deal with a bully in one of my classes. Of course, bullies are sneaky so I did not know what was going on until it was brought to my attention. That gave me the opportunity to sit back and watch and wait. I heard him. His hatefulness was beyond....... I don't have a word. I let him know I knew what he had been doing. I checked up on the situation Friday. He has not said another word. And he better not.
I said all of that to say this. You need to let the person in charge know what is going on, because she may not see it. Let her handle it. I have found that retaliation always gets caught and the guilty person in the situation acts like an innocent lamb.
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01-15-17, 06:29 PM | |
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FitBoop said perfectly what I had been trying to articulate since reading the original post.
Let me let you in on a little secret: There is about a 100% chance that you are not the only one being bothered by this person. I guarantee that it's not just you. Hang in there, friend. AF Check out my blog at www.typeALC.com |
01-17-17, 02:37 PM | |
Join Date: Jan 2006
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Another idea might be to email the facility and explain what has been going wrong - it's this particular class, the bully's name is x, she has made the following comments, you are uncomfortable, you don't want to drop out of the class but you don't know what to do - what do they suggest? I like this approach because for me it is easier to complain by email than in person, and this way they will have a record of the complaint.
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