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Join Date: May 2006
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PCkvCPvDXk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6xXEaWz5Iw--Tony Horton makes a guest appearance towards the end
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06-06-20, 02:46 PM | ||
Join Date: Nov 2001
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I have been everywhere from underweight to obese, and have experienced rude comments on both ends, but it felt much more painful, humiliating, and judgmental as a larger woman. A couple of years ago, I read about "thin privilege" and realized that's what ultimately drives me to stay thin now. I had never heard that term before, but it absolutely exists. That being said, my husband and one of my sons have always struggled to keep weight on or gain and they have received many rude comments about being thin or the amount they eat. I wish people would just mind their own business. Erica |
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06-06-20, 04:24 PM | ||
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Orange County, CA
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06-06-20, 07:36 PM | |
Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Arizona
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I was thin as a child, and my college roommate was heavy. I mentioned that it hurt when I was called names for being thin, and also for being tall. She informed me it wasn't as bad as her teasing for being heavy. I think her dismissal of my feelings hurt more than the actual teasing.
I had to look it up too. I do know that it is harder to find clothes at the thrift store when you are heavier. I noticed that even when I dropped one size, it was easier to find better clothes there.
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06-06-20, 11:32 PM | |
Join Date: May 2015
Location: Texas!
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My first thought was "She looks great!" followed by "I hope she's healthy and happy!"
I have dealt with food/eating issues all my life, and I have lost and gained significant amounts of weight due to health issues. I think a lot of times, people make assumptions about us based on their own issues. I received both criticism and praise at different stages of weight gain and loss. It used to consume so much of my time and I have made major gains in embracing that I'm more than my weight and size. I worry when the media makes a big deal about significant weight loss or gain. It makes me think of Karen Carpenter and Luther Vandross, both beautiful singers who struggled with these issues. |
06-07-20, 11:22 AM | |
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Join Date: Nov 2001
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Speaking of awkward situations...
My SIL had to fly recently. The airplane was packed with all seats full. An obese woman was seated in the middle seat next to my SIL. The woman took up her seat and parts of the seats on either side. My SIL flew for 3 hours only partly in her seat and partly in the aisle. I hate flying, have claustrophobia anyway and the virus has me freaked out. Airlines have continued to add seats on planes and make them too small. I would have gotten off that airplane.
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06-07-20, 07:43 PM | ||
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Seattle, WA
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Today's "it girls" who are larger are mostly focused on size inclusivity and representation in the fashion industry, not on disparaging slim women. |
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body comments, fit-shaming, weight loss |
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