Mary, for the most part I don't care about an instructor's personal life either. But when an instructor hits upon an issue that means enough to me, I don't want to spend my workout time with them. My workout time is my way to release stress. I just wish instructors would just not mention it, then I could enjoy their workouts
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I have to say, so far no instructor has said anything yet (that I know of) to make me not want to work out with them. But the year is only halfway over lol!