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09-27-18, 06:45 PM | |
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You absolutely did the right thing. It's all about control. If it wasn't your fitness routine, it would be something else until you gave up everything you enjoy to please him. Conditional love is not love at all.
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09-28-18, 08:19 AM | |
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Because you've never met his parents, yet you said his dad is very controlling, I'm wondering was it your boy friend who told you his dad is controlling? It's interesting that he would see it in his dad, but not recognize the same thing in himself.
Your initial post didn't say you felt he's very controlling - your last post tells us more. "Very controlling" is not the kind of person to be in a relationship with. |
09-28-18, 11:34 AM | |
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Some people don't understand the concept of training. Energy begets energy, you start working out and the body "sings". If one has never experienced this concept or does not wish to come to their better self, they may not understand the effort required.
I had a past relationship who asked me to stop saying I was in training, because it sounded like I was a monkey! He had no passion for working out. My husband thinks he is lucky to be married to me because he is a surfer. I understand his passion his need to move. I hope the best for you. I applaud your efforts, you sound like you are making progress. You are special. This should be recognized.
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09-28-18, 06:54 PM | ||
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09-28-18, 06:56 PM | ||
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09-30-18, 08:16 AM | |
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I agree with everyone else. Your fitness habits were his excuse. There would always be more reasons why he felt you didn't have enough time for him. Perhaps he wasn't able to pinpoint why the relationship wasn't working out for him. Whatever, right? It's best you find someone who is more compatible with you, and not necessarily someone who is also fitness "obsessed". Couples often have separate interests. Sorry you are going through this. Break ups are tough.
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