08-23-13, 05:45 PM | |
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Join Date: Nov 2001
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Experts: Mom has biggest impact on girls' body image
Jessica Smith just shared this article on FaceBook. Since there has been numerous discussions here regarding this subject, I thought it would be an interesting read:
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/n...image/2690921/
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08-23-13, 08:24 PM | ||
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The article is great, and I couldn't agree more. My mother def. said some hurtful things about my body/weight over the years, but what stuck with me most was how harshly critical she was of herself. To this day I almost never hear my mother say one kind thing about her body. She was and still is very, very hard on herself. And so, I was always inclined to be hard on myself. I am so thankful for my husband. He has done so much to help me retrain the way I think about my body. On the positive side, how wonderful that we are the most important influencers in our daughters' lives! Yes, the responsibility is great, but when you think of all the crazy, warped messages are kids are bombarded with all day, how wonderful is it that we can counteract that. The best thing for them is for us to be healthy and model that for them. |
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08-23-13, 08:52 PM | |
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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And this is why I always stand in front of the mirror while my kids are watching and flex and admire my muscles. I compliment myself and talk outloud to myself during this time remarking how it feels so good to move my body. To my kids, being strong in our family is know as being " mama strong".
And I talk a lot about nutrition. A lot. But I let them eat treats outside the house and I make paleo desserts for inside the house. I try to explain the relationship between food and health |
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body image, mother, self esteem |
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